Dang! Killer boredness strikes again, yeah, if i feel bored, i feel lonely. I learned from a book that we have to express, not suppress our loneliness, but its freaking hard because i don't have anybody to express my loneliness with. But what did i learned just now because of boredness?? The first thing to do, if we are lonely, is not to deny it. If we feel lonely, acknowledge and accept it. We need to express our lonelines, and remember, it is not wrong to cry (definitely for us boys, i mean men. "Boys don't cry, men does.."). Well thats what i do. LOL. I feel crazy. Coz' sometimes, for every privilege we enjoy, we have to give up another, thats what loneliness do. Confusing ey? We need to remember, life is a continuous trade-off, i mean life requires that we give up something in order to gain something else. I learned (from a book) that when in certain situations, we realize that what we have given up is too costly for us to lose, then common sense dictates that if it still possible, we should reclaim what we have traded off. We should not allow our loneliness to overwhelm, paralyze or incapacitate us, instead, give ourselves fully to the task at hand. To conclude this up, we learn to cope by not denying our loneliness. Express it. Refuse to allow loneliness to paralyze us. So screw loneliness so it will screw boredness.
